Thursday, December 18, 2008

Shouda....

ok oh!! i'm tired!! yes!! officially fed up!!!! doesnt anyone have a "life manual" handy?? the bible of "what to do", "how to do", "when to do", i always think i have it (my life)all under wraps when in actually sense i've got absolutely nothing!!! i'm loosing it, or have i already lost it?? i feel like screaming right now, no, maybe curling up in a ball somewhere and crying like a baby. WHY?

could it be because the year is slowly coming to an end?? is that why i'm reflecting so deeply on the past? well, taking stock of the fading year i can understand but digging into the past.... WHY????

i feel strange, really strange. it feels strange, this feeling deep inside of me. u know how it is when u start (u think)seeing clearly and wonder about certain decisions taken in the past! it leaves u with a deep ache and sour taste which leads to an empty vacuum that cannot be filled.

as i stared @ their happy faces - "the perfect looking couple" i felt my chest tighten. it could have been... should have been and would have been me. yes me!!!! standing pretty next to him and smiling into the camera. yes me!!! looking hot and holding on to my man.......

i stared and stared and stared at them. picture after picture... jealousy? envy? ha!

regret!! such a bad thing. i've never felt this way before about loosing an ex to someone else. it was my fault. he tried, oh yes! he really did but i just couldnt see beyond my own nose, i didnt believe him nor trust him now i wish i could have given it a chance even though now it's too late, he belomgs to another ....

i now wonder, how many good opportunities i've lost. all because of what?? at that time i really thought i was making the right decisions. the years roll by so quickly and i'm still alone, it's so, so sad being on my own. maybe the season is the reason i'm feeling this way. I HATE this feeling and i wish it would just GO AWAY!!!!!!!!!!

6 comments:

Beulah! said...

Ewooo!!...pele, i kinda know the feeling. It's horrible!

SOLOMONSYDELLE said...

oh no. my sister don't have any regrets as everything happens for a reason. Your own blessing is on the way.

Happy new year!

Beulah! said...

Echo!!!!!...u shoulda updated your blog all this while. I'm missing ur posts.

Anyways, i've just tagged you in the 2 truths, 1 lie meme....Pls comply ASAP!!!

Beulah! said...

Echo!!!!!...u shoulda updated your blog all this while. I'm missing ur posts.

Anyways, i've just tagged you in the 2 truths, 1 lie meme....Pls comply ASAP!!!

Olufunke said...

I can imagine....well, that twas since last year, I hope you feel better now.
I know that feeling
I pray this year your expereinces will only be those that bring smiles to your face.

stuck in my throat o said...

sweetie,your own is on the way...let's not cry over spilt and dried milk..